Try hard or give up

There is a belief that the optimal approach to a challenging situation is acceptance. Conversely, others argue that people should try to improve such circumstances. In my view, these are two complementary ideas and can both be used during difficult times.

On the one hand, if we don't try and just come to terms with adverse conditions, we could never discover their potential for improvement. Some struggles are enduring, but others can be overcome with sufficient effort. Once one solves a problem, they find it easy and do not understand some people still struggle. For example, the old professors rarely remember the hurdles that young students encounter in their learning journey. Therefore, It's better to do all you can before giving up.

On the other hand, not all problems are resolvable. Individuals have varying resource limits, knowledge, and skills. Sometimes we may recognize that a situation could change with more effort, but the cost may outweigh the benefits. For example, instead of persuading your current boss for a raise, seeking a higher salary at a new company is a more effective strategy. After trying all, giving up will become the most viable option.

In conclusion, choosing the best strategy in a challenging period depends on detailed conditions. How hard should we try and when should we give up is the art that can only be mastered through experiences and pains.

029 - jaken - 28/11/2023